Trauma Therapy and EMDR in Los Angeles
Virtual sessions throughout California
You have been managing this for a long time. Managing is not the same as healing.
Trauma is not only the event itself. It is what your nervous system learned to do afterward. What you went through does not have to sound severe to still be shaping your life now. Your therapist will draw on the approaches they are trained in and that fit how you process, which may include somatic work, parts work, attachment-based therapy, or EMDR. You heal at a pace you set, and you never have to share more than you are ready to.

You Might Be Here Because…
- You are tired in a way that sleep does not seem to fix
- Something small sets you off and you cannot explain why, even to yourself
- You keep your distance from certain people, places, or conversations without deciding to
- You find it hard to trust your own read on a situation
- Some part of you still believes it was your fault
- You feel numb more often than you feel anything else
- You lose stretches of time, or watch yourself from somewhere outside
- Closeness feels risky even when you want it
- Your body reacts before your mind catches up
- You have moved on in every practical way and still feel stuck
- You have told yourself it was not bad enough to count
Trauma Can Show Up As:
- PTSD or complex PTSD (C-PTSD)
- Childhood or developmental trauma
- Relationship or attachment trauma
- Grief and loss
- Sexual trauma
- Dissociation and feeling detached from yourself
- Burnout and vicarious trauma

Imagine Life Beyond Trauma
- Feeling safe and grounded in your body
- Peaceful sleep and fewer intrusive memories
- Trusting yourself and your relationships
- Responding instead of reacting
- Feeling more present, empowered, and in control
- Living a life that feels meaningful and free
How Trauma Therapy & EMDR Helps
Trauma therapy works on more than the memory itself. It settles a nervous system that has been braced for a long time, loosens the beliefs about yourself that formed while you were surviving, and rebuilds the sense of safety that makes closeness possible again. EMDR is one of the tools available for that work, and your therapist will talk with you about whether it fits. Together, we'll create a space to understand your experiences, reduce the impact of trauma, and build what you need for lasting healing.
EMDR is proven to help reduce symptoms of trauma, anxiety, and depression, so you can finally feel like yourself again.
- Reprocess distressing memories so they lose their intensity
- Reduce flashbacks, hypervigilance, and anxiety
- Rebuild a sense of safety in your body
- Understand the parts of you that learned to protect, numb, or shut down
- Challenge negative beliefs formed by trauma
- Restore trust in yourself and your relationships
Types of Trauma We Treat
Trauma is defined by how an experience affected you, not by how dramatic it looks from the outside. If you find yourself wondering whether yours counts, that question is worth bringing to a consultation.
Childhood and developmental trauma
Growing up with neglect, instability, or caregivers you could not rely on, and carrying the effects into adult life and relationships.
Complex trauma and C-PTSD
Repeated or prolonged experiences rather than a single event, often leaving lasting effects on identity, trust, and emotional regulation.
PTSD after a single event
An accident, assault, natural disaster, or sudden loss that your mind keeps returning to through flashbacks, nightmares, or hypervigilance.
Sexual trauma
Assault, abuse, or coercion at any point in your life, addressed at whatever pace feels safe and with no pressure to share details.
Generational and cultural trauma
Patterns of harm, silence, or survival passed down through a family, and the weight of navigating racism, immigration, or cultural expectation. Our therapists work from a culturally sensitive stance rather than treating your background as background.
Grief, loss, and attachment wounds
Losing someone who mattered, or the accumulated injuries of relationships that taught you closeness is not safe.
How We Treat Trauma
EMDR is one of the most effective treatments for trauma, but it is not the only one, and it is not right for everyone. Your therapist will draw on the approaches that fit how you process and what you feel ready for. If you want to read about PTSD and its treatment from a neutral source, the National Institute of Mental Health keeps a plain-language overview.
EMDR
Helps your brain reprocess distressing memories so they settle into the past instead of feeling present. You do not have to describe what happened in detail.
Somatic practices
Trauma lives in the body as much as the mind. Somatic work helps you notice and settle what your nervous system is holding, rather than working through thought alone.
Internal Family Systems
IFS-informed work treats the parts of you that protect, criticize, or shut down as understandable responses to what you survived, not problems to eliminate.
Attachment-based therapy
When early relationships shaped how safe you feel with people now, this work focuses on rebuilding trust in yourself and in connection.
You don't have to be ready to talk about it to start
Many people put off trauma therapy for years because they picture the first session as recounting the worst thing that happened to them. That is not how this works. Early sessions focus on getting to know you and building steadiness, and nothing about your history gets opened before you want it to.
You set the pace, you decide what to share, and you can slow down or stop at any point. That control is part of the treatment, not a courtesy.
Meet Our Los Angeles Trauma & EMDR Therapists
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Victoria Soneff
AMFT
- Trauma
- Anxiety & Depression
- ADHD
- Relationship Challenges (ENM-Friendly)

Frequently Asked Questions
What is EMDR therapy?
EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) is an evidence-based therapy that helps your brain reprocess distressing memories so they no longer feel overwhelming. It uses bilateral stimulation, such as guided eye movements, to help the memory settle into the past where it belongs.
How does EMDR work?
Traumatic memories can get stored in a raw, unprocessed form, which is why they still feel vivid years later. EMDR helps your brain do what it naturally does during rest, integrating the experience so it becomes a memory you can recall without reliving it.
Do I have to talk about my trauma in detail?
No. One of the reasons many people prefer EMDR is that you do not have to describe what happened in depth. Your therapist will guide you through the process while you stay in control of what you share.
What happens in a first trauma therapy session?
Nothing you are not ready for. The first session is mostly about getting to know each other, understanding what brought you in, and talking through what feels safe and what does not. We do not start processing trauma on day one. Early sessions focus on building enough safety and stability that deeper work becomes possible later.
How long does trauma therapy take?
It depends on what you are working through. Trauma from a single recent event often resolves faster than trauma that built up over years of childhood. Some people feel meaningfully better within a few months. Complex trauma usually takes longer, and that is normal rather than a sign anything is going wrong. Your therapist will check in with you about progress as you go.
How many EMDR sessions will I need?
This depends on the nature of your experiences and your goals. Some people working through a single event notice change within several sessions, while complex or developmental trauma typically takes longer. Your therapist will review progress with you throughout.
Do I need a PTSD diagnosis to start trauma therapy?
No. You do not need a diagnosis, a label, or a therapist's permission to get support for something that still affects you. Plenty of people we work with would not meet criteria for PTSD and are still carrying something that shapes their relationships, their sleep, or how safe they feel in their own body. That is reason enough.
Can EMDR therapy help with childhood trauma?
Yes. EMDR can be especially helpful for childhood or developmental trauma, including experiences that shaped how you see yourself and relate to others. This work usually moves at a slower, carefully paced rhythm to keep you feeling safe.
Does it count as trauma if nothing dramatic happened?
Yes. Trauma is defined by how an experience affected your nervous system, not by how severe it looks from the outside. Growing up with a parent you had to manage, chronic criticism, or years of feeling unseen can leave the same imprint as a single frightening event. If you find yourself minimizing what happened, that instinct is often part of the pattern.
Will I fall apart after sessions?
This is a common worry and a reasonable one. Sessions are paced so you are not left raw at the end, and we build in time to ground and settle before you finish. Your therapist will also work around what your week actually looks like, rather than opening something difficult right before a demanding day.
What if I don't remember much of what happened?
That is common and it does not prevent you from healing. Memory gaps are often the mind's way of protecting you, and trauma work does not depend on recovering a complete account. We can work with what you do carry, including body sensations, emotional reactions, and the beliefs that formed, without forcing recall.
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Trauma & EMDR Therapy in Los Angeles
Trauma work asks a lot of you, and getting home afterward matters. Seeing clients virtually means you can end a session and stay somewhere that already feels safe, rather than driving across the city. We offer trauma counseling to teens and adults throughout Los Angeles, from Culver City and Santa Monica to Brentwood, West Los Angeles, and the surrounding communities, and online anywhere else in California.

Start When You're Ready
Healing is possible, and you deserve to feel safe, connected, and in control of your life. Schedule your free consultation today and we'll help match you with the right therapist to support your healing journey.
Consultations are free and take about 15 minutes. Sessions are 50 minutes, held virtually anywhere in California, and you're never asked to share more than you're ready to.
Clinically reviewed by Keisha Libbrecht, LMFT, License LMFT #119480 · Last reviewed August 12, 2026
This page is for general information and is not a substitute for individual clinical advice.